Let’s Party!
My mom was the hostess with the mostess! She knew how to throw down a good time for any occasion. Growing up we had a finished basement, and she managed to transpire that room into a backdrop for any party theme. From fairy tale birthdays, to disco dances, poker night, or political election parties, she had them covered with decorations, food, and fun. The best thing is she did all of it herself, on a budget, and it always turned out perfect.
I learned a lot about hosting a good party from her. And as I have gotten older, I have picked up my own ideas and tips to pair with hers to make each party a success. The most important thing is to be organized.
Get Organized
- Pick your Date and Time.
- Take a good look at the calendar and make sure you are selecting a date and time that will give you prep time and clean up time. You don’t want to throw a Friday night party if you are working all week (no prep time) and have a full Saturday of plans (no clean up time).
- Select your theme.
- Make a two column list. One column will be an inventory of what decorations you have with the other column of what you need. The reason for the what you have column is so you don’t buy what you already have on hand. If you are like me you get to the party supply and can’t remember!
- Who’s invited
- Make your guest list and get your invites out.
- What are you serving?
- Is this a simple appetizer and hors d’oeuvres pick up party? Cake and ice cream? Or are you serving a full meal?
- Make your grocery list.
- Inventory your serving plates, bowls, napkins, etc.
- Activities and extras?
- Will there be any games played? Will you want background music?
- Write down what you need for any extra activities, music, prizes, etc.
Prep Ahead of Time
I’m a big believer in prepping. Food that can be prepared ahead time, do it!! Are you using a party room (like that good old basement)? Go ahead and decorate a few nights before. You will be glad you did when party day comes. Gather everything you need for the games, activities, etc. and put them together in a box or clothes basket. This is your chance to inventory once more and make sure you have everything you need. The last thing you want to do the day of the party is to have to run around town gathering items you forgot.
Another great tip, if you can swing it, is to hire help for party time. They can take guests coats, pick up empty plates and glasses, bartend, and assist in clean up at the end. If your budget does not allow for this, maybe there is a friend or family member who would be willing to help.
Party Time
The last thing, relax and have a good time! If something goes wrong, no one will know but you. So just go with it and party like a rockstar!